I'm sitting around a table with other couples, all in their 30's and 40's. As we talk about the different activities we're encouraging our children to try--voice lessons, dance, musical instruments, acting--one mother suddenly announces how much she wishes she could take ballet lessons.
"Why don't you!?" we all exclaim just as another mother confesses her desire to learn ballet. And then, the whole table erupts in a discussion of the classes we wish we were taking. We go around the room and answer the question: "What class do you secretly wish you could take?"
Painting, photography, guitar, voice, history, Spanish, piano. . . the list goes on as we share the things we still--even at our age--want to learn and do. But is it too late? I had just finished reading a chapter about neuroscience and the importance of novelty for brain health. Novelty--fresh ideas, fresh experiences, fresh activities--strengthens the brain as it ages.
It's not too late. It's never too late.
We commit to it as a group, encouraging one another in our desires. The gift we might give ourselves this Christmas for 2011 is novelty. Then, by Christmas of next year, we'll have another interest to pursue.
Living with flair means I give myself the gift of novelty. Who cares if you're the oldest ballerina in the room or if your arthritic fingers hesitate over the piano keys? You'll inspire the rest of us with your courage, your enthusiasm, and your flair. Is there something you secretly wish you could learn? I'd love to hear it!
